Make that Change!

What's going through this sistah's head (and around her head!) on a daily basis?

Sunday, February 17, 2008

Looks like they need a book too!

So here I am wondering why things don't work out for me w/ guys.... why we seem to want different things & can't come to agreement on certain things, I find that some men are just clueless on certain matters regarding dating!
I will continue to add to my list of different men I've come across as time goes on. You know... the list I started a few months back.
Last night I ran into 2 more characters, same name, but different characters.
  • The "CAN'T GET A CLUE" guy.
    I have a preference for tall guys. Afterall, I'm a tall woman. If I were going to choose the guy I want to spend time with, I'm sorry but I would prefer someone taller than me. So last night at the club a guy who I kid you not was literally eyelevel to my chest kept trying to dance w/me.1st of all...he just comes out of nowhere from behind me, grabs my hands & starts moving w/ me. HMMMM... cute, but no thanks. I move away. He follows me. I continue moving away. It got to a point where I felt like I was being chased on the dance floor & I had to mouth the words "HELP ME!!!" to another man that just happened to look up! lol He came over & I turned to dance w/ him. I thought he would have gotten the point. NOPE! I'll give him credit for persistance, but in this case no means NO!
  • The "GIVE ME A CLUE" guy. While dancing by myself (as prefered) and the DJ transitioned into another song I see him coming my way again. OH NO!!! I turn & see another guy, about 6'1'', muscular build, & kind of moving along to the beat at the edge of the dance floor. No time for introductions, this is an emergency! I grabbed him to dance w/ me & he was happy to oblidge. Funny how I didn't mind when he wrapped his hands around my waist or held me close. He even bought me a drink afterward! Wow, nice gentleman... maybe I can get to know this one? NOPE! Maybe he was committed already or maybe he's just a real gentleman. I won't know till I see him again, IF I see him again. He thanked me for the dance & said he was leaving for the night. Maybe that was my cue to offer to leave with him?? If so, I'm sorry... I wasn't gonna take that one anyway! But maybe I'll run into him again one day.

Wednesday, February 06, 2008

Love?

I can't supply the video this time... embedding disabled by request. But here's the link & here's the lyrics:
LOVE by Musiq Soulchild

Verse 1:
Love....
So many things Ive got to tell you
But Im afraid I dont know how
Cause theres a possibility
Youll look at me differently
Love
Ever since the first moment I spoke your name
From then on I knew that by you
being in my lifeThings were destined to change cause

Hook:
Love
So many people use your name in vain
Love
Those have faith in you sometimes go astray
Love
Through all the ups and downs the joy and hurt
Love
For better or worse I still will choose you first

Verse 2:
Many days Ive longed for you
Wanting you
Hoping for the chance to get to know you
Longing for your kiss
For your touch, your feel, your essence
Many nights Ive cried from the things you do
Felt like I could die from the thought of losing you
I know that youre real
With no doubts and no fears
And no questions

(hook)

Verse 3:
At first you didnt mean that much to me
But now I know that youre all I need
The world looks so brand new to meNow that I found love
Everyday I live for you
And everything that I do
I do it for you
What I say is how I feel so believe its true
You got to know Im true
(hook x 2)


See what happens when Valentine's day comes around the corner....dang it. I hate this time of year. MAYBE DAVID CAN HELP ME CHANGE MY MIND??? HOOK ME UP W? ONE OF YOUR ATTORNEY FRIENDS AT LEAST?!?! lol j/k I will continue to mention your name til you contact me in one way or another.... keep playing the waiting game if you want to!
Oh... & by the way, here's my follow up:

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