Looks like they need a book too!
So here I am wondering why things don't work out for me w/ guys.... why we seem to want different things & can't come to agreement on certain things, I find that some men are just clueless on certain matters regarding dating!
I will continue to add to my list of different men I've come across as time goes on. You know... the list I started a few months back.
Last night I ran into 2 more characters, same name, but different characters.
- The "CAN'T GET A CLUE" guy.
I have a preference for tall guys. Afterall, I'm a tall woman. If I were going to choose the guy I want to spend time with, I'm sorry but I would prefer someone taller than me. So last night at the club a guy who I kid you not was literally eyelevel to my chest kept trying to dance w/me.1st of all...he just comes out of nowhere from behind me, grabs my hands & starts moving w/ me. HMMMM... cute, but no thanks. I move away. He follows me. I continue moving away. It got to a point where I felt like I was being chased on the dance floor & I had to mouth the words "HELP ME!!!" to another man that just happened to look up! lol He came over & I turned to dance w/ him. I thought he would have gotten the point. NOPE! I'll give him credit for persistance, but in this case no means NO! - The "GIVE ME A CLUE" guy. While dancing by myself (as prefered) and the DJ transitioned into another song I see him coming my way again. OH NO!!! I turn & see another guy, about 6'1'', muscular build, & kind of moving along to the beat at the edge of the dance floor. No time for introductions, this is an emergency! I grabbed him to dance w/ me & he was happy to oblidge. Funny how I didn't mind when he wrapped his hands around my waist or held me close. He even bought me a drink afterward! Wow, nice gentleman... maybe I can get to know this one? NOPE! Maybe he was committed already or maybe he's just a real gentleman. I won't know till I see him again, IF I see him again. He thanked me for the dance & said he was leaving for the night. Maybe that was my cue to offer to leave with him?? If so, I'm sorry... I wasn't gonna take that one anyway! But maybe I'll run into him again one day.